Thursday, June 07, 2007

Some Men

I have met some stellar men in the past year. I met them in cyberspace, unfortunately. I mean, I'm glad I met them, but I would rather they were in my real life and not just my web life. I have to say that these guys are real men; smart, funny, aware, talented. Of course, cyberspace is somewhat idealistic, right? There is no need to show all of your warts. In fact, if you want to, you can create a really outstanding persona to put on display out there. I hope I am savvy enough to cull out the phonies, but maybe these fellas are really good actors. Nah. I think they really are good men. They are guy friends. I don't have romantic notions about them. I admire them and value them and feel like I can tell them things. And I have. Little bits here and there about my life. They are always supportive. One man had to disappear for a while. I think his wife got fed up with his spending so much time on the computer. I know I would be jealous if my husband spent a lot of time on a web site chatting with women. Even though it's innocent, it still takes people away from their lovers and families. I don't know how long we will keep up our chats, but I hope it's a long time.